I did some traveling last
week. I had to be in Addis Ababa for the All-Volunteer Conference but a couple
days before that I met up with some friends in Hawassa (the capital city of
SNNPR). It was a much needed break. All of us that live in the South absolutely
love Hawassa. There’s a beautiful lake (you can’t swim in it or you’ll get
shisto), some great restaurants, gelato, and it’s just a great place to relax. I
hadn’t left Butajira in eight weeks, since G9’s IST (In-Service Training). I
left my house early in the morning, around 6:30am so I could catch the direct
bus to Hawassa. Missing it would mean having to take three buses and I wasn’t
about to go through that. Since it had been eight weeks since I had last
traveled I was pretty nervous about getting on a public bus. My stomach started
hurting the night before I had to leave. As soon as I arrived at the bus
station, men came up to me asking me where I was going wanting to lead me to
the right bus. When I gave them my destination, they said the bus was on its
way so I would have to wait. They had me sit next to the bus station manager.
As in most situations in Ethiopia, I was the center of attention. The manager
wanted to talk to me and ask me a gazillion questions. Every guy that came up
to the manager’s desk had to look at me and ask about me. Each time I said
something in Amharic they started laughing. I guess seeing a foreigner make an
attempt at their language is amusing. When the manager asked me why I was going
to Hawassa, I told him I was meeting my friend and he immediately asked me if
Theresa was my lover. That made me laugh out loud. I’m still not used to how
when you say “friend” people assume you mean a boyfriend/girlfriend. After an
hour of waiting outside (the manager’s desk isn’t in an office but off to the
side of the bus station on a porch) the Hawassa bus finally showed up. Being as
I was the foreigner, one of the guys in the bus station forced everybody back
who was trying to get on and made sure I had a seat (the bus was already almost
full since it had filled up in another town and was just stopping through
Butajira to pick up a few more). From that point on the trip was really easy
except for the fact that I had no space in between my seat and the one in front
of me and so was forced to put my incredibly heavy hiking backpack on my knees.
I wasn’t able to move at all for three hours, but I guess that’s partially my
fault for packing so much stuff.
Hawassa
was amazing and after a couple days of enjoying Hawassa, walking around, eating
a lot, and drinking beer we all headed to Addis for the conference. AVC was a
two day event where all Peace Corps Volunteers in Ethiopia (mostly G7, G8, G9)
got together. I wasn’t sure what to expect with so many of us together. I’m
alone most of the time so the thought of suddenly being surrounded by two
hundred volunteers (PC Ethiopia is the second largest PC country) was both
exciting and overwhelming.
We arrived
on Thursday afternoon and had dinner with the ambassador that evening. After we
finished eating she did an interview with one of the volunteers. That was a
great experience. The following day started early with sessions. We divided up
into our various sectors, education, health, and environment. It was great
getting to hear about some of the things G7 (they are all education volunteers)
had done and share our experiences thus far. It was also nice to see that we
are all facing similar challenges and it’s more than likely that the problems I’m
facing in my school and community, another volunteer is going through something
very similar. The rest of the sessions throughout the conference were on
different projects we could do in our communities. Several sessions were
offered and we got to choose the ones we wanted to attend. Hearing about the
various projects that volunteers have been working on and how we could start
them left me feeling motivated to go back to site and get back to work.
I also
attended a session on women in PC Ethiopia. Females discussed their experiences
with sexual harassment and assault and how it has affected them. This was
probably one of the most helpful sessions I attended. We talked about how the
daily harassment has changed how we act when we are walking around town and how
we communicate with males. For many it has made them more angry, alert, and
anxious. For myself, I have to mentally prepare myself for all the attention I’m
going to get when I walk out of my house and go into town. Most of us agreed
that we have our “bitch face” on when we walk out the door. For many of us, that’s
the best we deal with it. It’s a way for us to cope with harassment. It was
really helpful to hear that the way I’m reacting to the attention isn’t crazy.
I’m not wrong for reacting like this and many of the female PCVs are feeling
the same way. Attending that session made everything that I’ve been feeling
from the verbal and sexual harassment validating. One volunteer mentioned that
she hated the fact that this sort of harassment was enough to make PCVs quit PC
and go home. It gets to a point where it becomes too much to handle. That’s why
it’s crucial to find healthy ways to cope with it.
Besides
the serious stuff, there were also a lot of fun things we got to do and see. On
Friday night there was a talent show and Saturday night was karaoke. Those were
great. During lunch on Saturday there was a fair where local vendors came to
sell various hand-made items. We were also given time to start thinking about doing
summer camps for students with the volunteers living in our region. I’ll talk
more about that in a future post. At night after sessions were over we were
free to go wherever our stomachs called. I got to eat at a Chinese restaurant,
a Mexican restaurant, and on my last night I got a fresh salad and a delicious
cupcake. After dinner we went to different clubs and bars. It was so much fun
to meet new volunteers and for all of us to be together just having a good
time.
Finally,
as my post started with a bus ride, it will end with a bus ride. If I was nervous
about the bus station in Butajira, I was super stressed about catching one in
Addis. Us volunteers may love going to Addis because of the great restaurants,
beer we can drink without people gossiping about us throughout town, hot
showers, and going out at night with our friends, but getting around Addis is a
pain. You have to catch a “line taxi” to get anywhere. These are like big vans
that are full of people and really uncomfortable. The guy who collects the
money will stick the upper half of his body out the window and yell the various
locations that the bus is heading in. To get a bus home, I first had to get a “line
taxi” from my hotel to Mexico. At the present moment Mexico is the biggest pain
because either a railroad, or a subway, or a tramway is being built (I honestly
still don’t know) but anyways it’s a big mess. There is construction
everywhere, huge piles of rubble, hundreds of people going in various
directions, people selling random stuff, homeless people begging for money and on
top of that dirty water all over the roads that’s coming from who know where. Once
in Mexico it took me a little bit to find a line taxi going to the Mercato bus
station. I had to ask several people where it was because the first three
people I asked completely ignored me. Finally a nice man had me follow him and
asked around where it was and lead me to it. I’m so thankful when I run into
those people. Now about Mercato. No one likes Mercato. In fact, PC tells us we
are not allowed to go to Mercato, except to the bus station for those of us who
live on that route, if that tells you anything about the area. After about 15
minutes the line taxi dropped me off in the middle of chaos and told me to walk
the rest of the way to the station. I was in the middle of a bunch of small
shops. There were people everywhere, the area was gross, random people were
shouting out to me, but luckily I didn’t have to walk far and I was pointed in
the right direction. Once in the bus station, a swarm of guys came up to me
yelling, “Where are you go? Where are you go?” I told them Butajira and a man
grabbed my hand and lead me to the bus. I tried to loosen my hand from his grip
him but when I noticed he wouldn’t let go I didn’t care as long as he didn’t
try anything crazy. I just wanted to get on the bus. Funny how you start to
adapt to the way of life here. If some guy in a bus station had physically
grabbed me and wouldn’t let go in my first couple months in Ethiopia I would
have been so scared. Now it’s normal to me. Of course the bus was full when I
got there and people were screaming and shouting. Moments like that I’m glad I
don’t understand Amharic. There’s a cushion in between the driver and the
passenger seat so I had to sit there. There was a man already on the cushion so
I sat behind him so we were back to back and I was facing all the passengers.
Not a comfortable ride but I finally made it home.
All in all, public
transportation is no fun, but AVC was amazing and well worth the travel. I hope
it becomes an annual event and we can do it again next year.
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